In my last article I touched on 5 things men love about successful women and after the generous response by the readers, I felt it only right to show the flip side and detail what turns us off the most about women without their act together. I can’t possibly speak for every man but every man I know with means and mogul mannerisms agree with what I’m saying here. In efforts to step our collective game up, ladies I ask: how much of this is you?
Way too much time on their hands
Successful men don’t have the time to sit around and BS with one another (save getaway trips) and we expect the same from our women. Those that spend a considerable amount of time on Media Take Out, and Perez Hilton shows boredom with their lives and they could stand a Hustle transfusion. Idle minds conjure the best so ladies, find a way to utilize that time for improving the quality of life for yourself and your family.
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“Queen of Sheba” complex
Modern day television has embedded in women’s heads that every woman, regardless of life goal plans, are regal and should demand that level of respect. I have nothing but love for my ladies and you do deserve respect however it’s unsavory to talk with a woman who would rather spend money than make it talk down on another’s faults while not doing anything about her own. From my own experience I’ve seen women happy with depravity and if not entirely happy, unwilling to adjust themselves to better their environment. Uncle Sam may foot the bill but who’s paying the toll? You.
They tend to live second childhoods
You’re not seven anymore; your priorities should not be: club, new man, girlfriends, new man, new man and if there’s time left over, new man. Back in grammar school it was cute to have a crush on a boy and daydream all day about love but now it just looks tacky. Not to mention we can smell the love sick a mile away and for the type of guys that just want to ride the slide in the “playground”, these women are the easiest prey because they don’t require more than a little attention. Get your grown on and show him you’re more interested in your personal expansion than a nightcap.
They become Babies “R” Us
Not all women do this but enough to mention. Women who are chronically unsuccessful have a tendency to believe their worth comes from their children and baby fathers which is undeniably the wrong idea. Your children are additions to your life that are more than a tax credit or child support bargaining chip and successful men avoid women either indifferent to or eager to start families right away. Don’t let the television fool you; there is nothing wrong and everything right with holding off the baby making until you are financially able.
They let themselves go
Please don’t allow Real Housewives of Atlanta to get you mixed up; successful men do not seek out “thick” girls. Broke men do because they are easier to catch than the woman who is about something significant. Unsuccessful women fall victim to mini-depressions every time the topics of “why black men date outside their race” or “lighter tone vs. darker tone” come up and what little disposable money they may have goes to the first open location where they can feast on the greasy or the sweet in larger than needed amounts. 9/10 unsuccessful women don’t have a gym membership and staying fit is not a concern because the broke dude they are with doesn’t mind the curves. We aren’t asking for rail thin malnourished supermodel skinny but if you empathize with Precious, we have a problem.
Again, this is no attack on my beautiful women but an explanation as to why you hardly see well to do gentlemen with less than stellar women. Beauty is skin deep but ambition is the sweetest perfume.